I started my genealogical research over 40 years ago. I started on a
good path - I took a class through community ed and learned the basics. The
first lesson you learn is to BEGIN WITH YOURSELF AND WORK BACK, and that’s what I did.
My mother’s maiden name is Dixie Joy Butzek (and
yes, we have southern roots). Her father was Anton or Anthony Butzek. His
father was Albert Butzek. I knew my great-grandparents but only had vague
memories of them. They were called something like JaJa and Bousha, which I was
told was Polish for grandma and grandpa. I remember that when we visited my
Uncle Rudy, they would be sitting together on the couch — watching and taking
everything in but not speaking. I dug into researching my great-grandfather Albert
Butzek. Except he wasn’t my great-grandfather.
The name Butzek can be spelled in various ways. My cousin spells it
Buczek, but his father spells it Butzek. After several years of finding very
little, I asked my grandmother, who had been married to Anthony, what she knew
about Albert and the family. She said something that shocked me. “Well, you know that Albert isn’t Anthony’s real father, right?” DUH!!
NO, I DIDN’T. I had never heard the story (we weren’t very close to that side
of the family since my grandfather had died in 1943). I had been chasing the
wrong family all those years.
It turns out that my great-grandmother had a first husband, and he was
my grandfather’s father. His last name was Martinek - or maybe it was Marcinek.
There are many stories about this whole thing, but no one had thought to
mention them to me. Everyone assumed I knew. And this was the second lesson I
learned – NEVER ASSUME ANYTHING.
My great-grandfather, Anton Martinek, came to the United States in
1909. He and my great-grandmother had married about 1903. It appears it was his
second marriage because he had an older son - Casimir. My great-grandmother, grandfather,
and a couple of siblings came over shortly after my great-grandfather in 1909.
The story was that my great-grandfather had a temper, got into a fight, and
came to the U.S. one step ahead of the law. I have no idea if any part of that
story was true. But in the 1910 census, the family is all listed under the name
Menson. It’s a bit unclear why they used that name.
Perhaps the enumerator didn’t understand them, or maybe they thought using a
fake name was a good idea. Living with the family is Albert Butcher - who I
believe was Albert Butzek. Albert had come over on the same ship as Anton
Martinek.
By 1912, the marriage was totally on the rocks, and Marie Martinek, my
great-grandmother, sought a divorce from Anton Martinek because he was a “habitual drunkard.” “He was wholly unfit to have the care and custody
of said children.” She noted that the defendant had “struck, beat, slapped and
mistreated” her and “threatened to shoot” her. So Anton did have a temper, and
it makes the original story of him fleeing the law not so far-fetched. The
divorce was granted.
In June 1913, Albert Bucsek and Mary Martinek married in Vermilion
County, Illinois. Marie was only 28 years old. She already had five children
and, in August, gave birth to a sixth. After the divorce, the five Martinek
children started using the Butzek name almost immediately. They were always
known by that last name. When Anthony Butzek married my grandmother Stella
Edwards in 1931, he used the last name Butzek. My mother and her brother have
the last name Butzek on their birth certificates. There’s no indication that Albert Butzek, their stepfather, ever officially
adopted the children. In 1936, when Anthony completed his social security
application, he used the last name of Butzek.
In 1943, my grandfather completed his naturalization process. He
applied as Anton Marcinek. He listed his wife as Stella Mae Marcinek, and his
children as Dixie Joy Marcinek and Anthony Marcinek Jr. He noted that he had
arrived under the name of Anton Martinek. As part of the court proceedings, he officially
changed his name to Anthony Butzek. This name change is noted on the back of
his naturalization certificate. It says, “Name
changed by decree of Court from Anton Marcinek, as a part of the
Naturalization.”
I am left with a mystery. What was the real name? Martinek or
Marcinek? Why was it Martinek on the passenger list and divorce record but
Marcinek in Anthony’s naturalization
record? This complicates research for that family. My grandfather, Anthony,
died a month after completing his naturalization. My great-grandfather Anton
Martinek/Marcinek seems to have disappeared after the divorce; what happened to
him is unclear. It’s one of the most confusing name changes I’ve encountered in
all my research. But the third lesson I learned early on was NEVER GIVE UP!
ADDED NOTE: To confuse things further, my
maiden name is Martin – which apparently used to be Martinek.